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In the context of the mind at death<\/em>, this is normally preceded by a time of ageing. As we age, here are four mental perspectives, or attitudes, that will help in growing older gracefully:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Awareness<\/strong><\/h5>\n\n\n\n

This occurs when we become aware, perhaps for the first time, that we are now, indeed, entering older age. It may be a sudden \u201cwake-up call\u201d through an unexpected event or situation (such as a serious illness, car accident, or death of a loved one), but does not have to be. It dawns on us that \u201cWhether I like it or not, I\u2019m aware of having reached the stage of life where I\u2019m now an older person.\u201d In reality, maintaining awareness in all of life is important: \u201cRemain aware and awake, regardless of what is going on. Many of our strengths and faculties decline as we age, but our ability to pay attention can be practiced, and can persevere and even grow.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acceptance<\/strong><\/h5>\n\n\n\n

Acceptance is coming to terms with the fact that we are now older. We are at peace with the natural process of ageing \u2014 we no longer resist, fight, or deny what is inevitably occurring. We may also have to accept, for example, certain health issues (such as diabetes, heart issues, high blood pressure, dental problems, osteoporosis, etc.), sometimes concomitant with ageing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adaptation<\/strong><\/h5>\n\n\n\n

Having accepted ageing as a part of our life\u2019s journey, we are ready to adapt our lives accordingly. We no longer compare ourselves to the past, but are able to rest in the age we are now. \u201cAs long as we keep comparing ourselves to a younger, better self (who may have been better only in hindsight), we short-change the possibilities for becoming an older, wiser person. The wisdom of Adaptation begins in the willingness to let go of who we used to be and embrace who we are now … The challenge of the stage of Adaptation is how well we can adjust and remain flexible as the signs of wear and tear in our world grow more noticeable. One of the clear results of current aging research is that\u2014physically, mentally, and emotionally\u2014those who remain flexible and roll with the punches age the best, stay the healthiest, and live the longest. Adaptation and flexibility are our best strategies for keeping abreast of our aging, and the keys to creating freshness and new opportunities as we age. We need to remember that change works both ways. It is not just wear and tear; it is also new beginnings.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Appreciation<\/strong><\/h5>\n\n\n\n

We are grateful for our life\u2019s journey and are now able to fully live life, albeit in a different manner \u2014 namely, with growing older gracefully and meaningfully. This final stage, Appreciation, arrives when adaptation blossoms into full acceptance. \u201cGratitude, with no complaints, is the attitude that I would like to have, not only at the end of my life, but from now until then. May it be so for all of us!\u201d (Sylvia Boorstein).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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We have found these four perspectives for ageing helpful and meaningful \u2014 and we will no doubt fall back on them as reminders for the remainder of our lives. May this mental perspective on older life also be helpful for all our readers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Alexander Peck<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Source: Based on Richmond, Lewis, Aging as a Spiritual Practice: A Contemplative Guide to Growing Older and Wiser<\/em>. Foreword by Sylvia Boorstein. Sheridan, WY: Gotham Books, 2012.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Contemplation<\/strong>

Adaptation and Flexibility

One of the clear results of current aging research is that\u2014physically, mentally, and emotionally\u2014those who remain flexible and roll with the punches age the best, stay the healthiest, and live the longest. Adaptation and flexibility are our best strategies for keeping abreast of our aging, and the keys to creating freshness and new opportunities as we age. We need to remember that change works both ways. It is not just wear and tear; it is also new beginnings.

(Lewis Richmond, Aging as a Spiritual Practice<\/em>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n
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